Quarter Century Lessons

This past weekend the dreaded day came where I turned 25. Now I am obsessed with my birthday and make a big deal of it, but I still didn't want to turn 25. I just felt that my life isn't where I want it to be, but then I got to thinking. Although it's not where I want … Continue reading Quarter Century Lessons


Do not bite off more than you can chew.

I'm sure everyone hears this phrase a lot, most likely from your parents who only nag you because they care. Well, give them the praise because they are right. I started this blog thinking it would be easy, but I was wrong. A blog is a lot of hard work and commitment, and thankfully I'm … Continue reading Do not bite off more than you can chew.

Gentleman, appreciate the long texts.

Now, how many women out there have sent a guy a long heart felt message. I guarantee every single women whether reading this blog, or not. I am no exception either, I try very hard to not let the girl brain take control, but lets face it - it's tough. Guys do not understand the amount of … Continue reading Gentleman, appreciate the long texts.

First loves are the ones that change us.

Some people are lucky, and end up with their first and only love. But, if you're like me and many others they are the ones who completely destroy you. I was a naive girl and fell in love with a guy three years older then me. He seemed perfect, he had passion about his career … Continue reading First loves are the ones that change us.

I’m perfectly incomplete; I’m still working on my masterpiece.

Never stop improving; but don't stop being you. Life is going to through curve balls at you, don't let it break you. Every bad experience, every bad decision, and every other bad thing isn't truly bad because it becomes a lesson you can learn from. I truly believe that everything does happen for a reason. … Continue reading I’m perfectly incomplete; I’m still working on my masterpiece.

It’s okay to sink a friendship.

What's the point of dealing with people who have no positive impact on your life? We're not in this life to deal with shitty people.  I have witnessed and watched so many people deal with friendships or relationships that are truly toxic. The saddest thing is they deal with it because of all they've invested already. That … Continue reading It’s okay to sink a friendship.

Be your friends biggest fan.

There is no greater feeling than supporting your friends, and seeing how much it means to them. I constantly tell my friends I am their biggest fan, and number one supporter. It goes such a long way because someone is truly believing in them. Not many people have had supporters growing up; so if you … Continue reading Be your friends biggest fan.

Why independent women play “the game”.

Before I begin my blog I just want to say happy Independence Day! I hate to admit it, but I am one of those girls who plays the game, and actually enjoys when the guy plays it too. I blame it on every messed up relationship I've had in the past. It is a way to see … Continue reading Why independent women play “the game”.


THIS IS YOUR TIME TO BE SELFISH. Traveling is the greatest gift you can give yourself, and this time in your life is the time to do it.  You're not tied down, you have no commitments, no family; so what's holding you back? I know you're reading this and thinking, but traveling is so expensive. It … Continue reading TRAVEL TRAVEL TRAVEL.

The unforgettable New Years.

Everyone has those stories. Well, when I get together with one or all my girls, normally we always have those stories. This one is New Years weekend, and it was an unleashed weekend with me and my best friend. It consisted of almost everything; sex, make-outs, blackouts, cuts & bruises, throw up, dead phones, random guys, future husbands, and … Continue reading The unforgettable New Years.