Quarter Century Lessons

This past weekend the dreaded day came where I turned 25. Now I am obsessed with my birthday and make a big deal of it, but I still didn't want to turn 25. I just felt that my life isn't where I want it to be, but then I got to thinking. Although it's not where I want [...]


Gentleman, appreciate the long texts.

Now, how many women out there have sent a guy a long heart felt message. I guarantee every single women whether reading this blog, or not. I am no exception either, I try very hard to not let the girl brain take control, but lets face it - it's tough. Guys do not understand the amount of [...]

I’m perfectly incomplete; I’m still working on my masterpiece.

Never stop improving; but don't stop being you. Life is going to through curve balls at you, don't let it break you. Every bad experience, every bad decision, and every other bad thing isn't truly bad because it becomes a lesson you can learn from. I truly believe that everything does happen for a reason. [...]

It’s okay to sink a friendship.

What's the point of dealing with people who have no positive impact on your life? We're not in this life to deal with shitty people.  I have witnessed and watched so many people deal with friendships or relationships that are truly toxic. The saddest thing is they deal with it because of all they've invested already. That [...]

Why independent women play “the game”.

Before I begin my blog I just want to say happy Independence Day! I hate to admit it, but I am one of those girls who plays the game, and actually enjoys when the guy plays it too. I blame it on every messed up relationship I've had in the past. It is a way to see [...]

The unforgettable New Years.

Everyone has those stories. Well, when I get together with one or all my girls, normally we always have those stories. This one is New Years weekend, and it was an unleashed weekend with me and my best friend. It consisted of almost everything; sex, make-outs, blackouts, cuts & bruises, throw up, dead phones, random guys, future husbands, and [...]